Culture Shock.

We've been home for just about 8 weeks now. The time has flown by, what with Christmas, New Year, going back to work, etc, etc... I certainly haven't meant to leave this blog so untended for such a long time, but that is certainly what has happened. But here I am, back to update you on how things are for us at the moment.

We're living at home with my parents, my two sisters and my brother. It has been pretty crowded, although that's not much different to how we'd been living anyway! We both started working again 2 weeks after we arrived home; Kat back with The Salvation Army as a foster care case worker, and Cliff [temporarily] also with TSA until the end of Feb (and will probably end up with a more permanent job somewhere else in the next couple of weeks). We have spent many afternoons and evenings out catching up with the friends we missed while we were away and are starting to feel like we might be up to date with most of them!

We feel like we've adjusted pretty well to being home. We haven't really experienced much culture shock in the 'whoah we just left a third world country and reentered a first world one' sort of way (South Africa's like a constant ongoing experience like that); what we have experienced is much more subtle.

Living at Refilwe, our entire life was on our doorstep. Our respective work places were within a 65 second walk from our door, our friends lived next door, our coworkers (and clients!) lived next door as well. If we wanted to spend time in nature, we walked outside. If we wanted to play sport, we walked across the bridge to the courts and field. If we wanted to spend time alone, we drove a whole 3 minutes down the road to the local pie shop. If we wanted to spend time with our friends, we yelled at them from our porch to come over (on the down side, if a student left their homework in their classroom, guess who got the knock on the door at 8 at night?). It was a culture we adjusted to without thinking twice about it; life was intertwined, messy and convenient.

'Home' has a very different culture. By nature of the infrastructure that our lives are built around there is an element of fragmentation that occurs. We live far away from where we work. We live far away from our friends. If we want to spend time with them, we have to plan in advance. We have to use these things called phones if we want to communicate with them.

If we want to spend time in nature, we get in the car first. We certainly don't see our coworkers after hours, and god forbid our clients figure out where we live. If we want to spend time alone, we stay at home. Life is not messy, on the contrary it is quite compartmentalised- no part of my life has to touch another part of it unless I choose to make it so.

The culture 'shock' that has gradually crept up on us is the realisation of the differences between these two. The first is very communal and community-oriented, yet on the down side much of that stemmed from convenience. The other can be quite isolating, yet on the up side it demands intentionality with both time and relationships. Both have their rewards and their challenges, but at the end of the day, they are very different cultures that require us to live our life in different ways. And that's what we're navigating right now!

Leaving Refilwe.

Our time in South Africa and, more importantly, Refilwe is coming to an end. Tomorrow we will say our goodbyes and head to the airport to begin our journey home. It is certainly a bittersweet time for us; we are so excited to be heading home after almost 20 months away, but we are sad to be leaving the place and people of Refilwe.

Working for Refilwe this year has been at once challenging and rewarding. We have both learned a lot this year about many different things:

We’ve learned that South Africa is a beautiful country that is well worth spending time in. We realised quickly not to listen too carefully to the horror stories people felt it necessary to share with us about its evils and discover for ourselves that its many beauties and wonderful people outweighed any potential risks.

We’ve learned that human beings, in their desire for power, are capable of horrendous acts. We have seen first-hand many of the effects of designing a social structure that systematically excluded and oppressed entire people groups in the name of power. We saw poverty, families in disrepair; we heard stories of abuse, neglect and crime. We felt what it was like to be judged by the colour of our skin and saw what decades of it could do to a person’s soul.

We’ve learned that rebuilding and reconciliation takes time. We have seen that people do not easily change unless they are personally motivated to do so. We have learned that there are no tricks or easy answers to the question of how to help people become personally motivated.

We’ve learned that people can accomplish extraordinary things when they take charge of their lives. We have seen people grow, businesses flourish, students improve and friends take on challenges that have changed their lives. We have been amazed at what individuals are able to overcome when they free themselves from the restrictions and labels of their past.

We’ve learned that community development is a complex endeavour that requires self-reflection, patience and flexibility. We have seen ideas come and go, some that have been incredibly successful and some that have not. We have learned that development is far less about our ideas and goals as it is about listening to and understanding the goals of others.

We’ve learned that relationships are important above all else. We’ve seen that, regardless of the situation, listening to others and valuing what they say is one of the most meaningful things you can do. Theories and programs and structures are useless without it. We have been blessed to see relationships grow and change in the community around us.

We're ready to be home and see what the things we've learned mean for the next part of our life together. 

 

 

Wrapping Up

Our time at Refilwe is very quickly coming to an end! This week is the last week of the school year, as well as our last official week of work. Refilwe is starting to slow down as different programs close and take a break over the holiday period.

There are still many things to keep us busy this week; the students at school have finished writing their exams, so this week is filled with different activities to keep them busy. One of these activities is a much-anticipated talent show on Thursday evening. The students have been busy rehearsing for weeks! This entire year I have worked one-on-one with a 15 year old girl who, at the beginning of the year, could not recognise her entire alphabet, let alone read. On Thursday she is going to read a story (on her own!) as her 'act' in the Talent Show! I am so proud!

The most exciting thing that is happening for us this week is the arrival of our sister Miriam and dear friend Jolane. We are so looking forward to them being here and being able to see and experience some of the things that have been so much a part of our life this year.

The photos today are from a Braai we had with our students on Friday afternoon to celebrate the end of their exams. It was fun to just sit and relax and let the students do all the work cooking and setting up (and of course eating!). They sure are a photogenic bunch!

Cliff and I have started reflecting on our experiences here at Refilwe and all of the things we have learned during our time here. I'm not going to go into it today, but you can expect a post soon about it! We can't believe that we really are in our last weeks, and that in just over 2 weeks' time, we'll be back home! It's going to be very bittersweet to leave.

The Main Event... coming soon...ish

Today marks 200 days until the 2010 Soccer World Cup kicks off. We know this because every single possible media outlet in South Africa has told us so. In fact, since we arrived back in February, it has been possible for us to know the exact number of days until this event, thanks to a national countdown that is displayed on the news each night. 

In a way, we have been able to use this countdown to measure our time at Refilwe; when we first arrived there was something like 470 days to go. In July, 365. We know that we were in Cape Town 56 days ago, because I took a photo of this sign while we were there:

Now there is 200 days to go. That means that we have been in South Africa for something like 270! And for almost every one of those 270 Days, we have heard something about the World Cup. 

We have seen the face of Johannesburg change. The city is full of high rises that were abandoned during the most violent periods of The Struggle against apartheid; mainly used now as homes for squatters, these buildings have been cleared out and covered up. With what? You might ask? Well, with billboards that are the exact height and length of the buildings (called building wraps) . In an instant, the city went from looking rundown and dirty to looking like a modern, advertise-centric metropolis.

The World Cup means many things for South Africa, not least the fact that it signals an indication of a Bright New Future of economic and political prosperity. In terms of industry, business development, tourism and all around good feelings, The World Cup has allowed for growth and/or the promise of growth at a time that South Africa really needed it. With the prospect of millions of people visiting this country next year, everyone is geared up and ready to make some bucks. Everything and anything is branded "2010"... look again at the picture at the top- it's of a hat that a woman wore to a wedding we went to!

There is, of course, the darker side to all of this. Entire settlements of people that have been moved because of their unsightly communities, billions and billions of Rand being spent on the development of roads, railways (which aren't even being used because the Taxi Drivers have flat out refused to accept the train and have blocked as much of its development as they could) and building stadiums. Rand that have not been spent on social infrastructure or education or health care. 

One of the biggest concerns that many organisations such as Refilwe who work closely with children is the fact that all schools are closing for the 6 weeks of the Event. This means there will be millions of children with nothing to do, most of them not being able to actually afford to go to any games. Because of the importance of the Event, most of the police force will be allocated to working it, rather than doing their normal work. This potentially means that the crime against already vulnerable children will increase, placing pressure on organisations to ensure these kids can be kept occupied and safe during 2010. Refilwe is certainly considering how it can best look out for the kids in our local communities. 

The end results of 2010's World Cup obviously remain to be seen. And not just who wins the title, but also how South Africa emerges on the other side; a better, stronger and more united nation? Or a country that compromised the safety of children and communities for the sake of its 15 minutes of fame?

Refilwe Enterprises

For Non-Government Development Organisations (known in the international development field as "NGDOs") the acquisition of resources is unfortunately a central part of operations. Without consistent access to resources, NGDOs face uncertainties that can jeopardise whole programs. And in community development, jeopardising programs means jeopardising opportunities for reaching people. NGDOs therefore try to maintain consistency and predictability when it comes to their resources.

I have explained before that Refilwe receives resources from many avenues; corporate, church and other individual donations as well as many non-financial resources such as volunteers (some like us, some who come for a day or a week or a day once a week), internet, space, machinery and food. The problem with a reliance on donations is that you become dependent on external forces for resources (like my poem?). This can put an NGDO in the position of having to pander to donors, or to acquiesce to demands and requests about when, where and how resources can be used.

For the most part, Refilwe has great relationships with its donors, but as the poem goes, reliance on outside forces for resources can be problematic. So Refilwe has sought to eradicate some of these problems by establishing its own income-generating enterprises:

The Indigenous Tree Nursery pictured above is one such enterprise. You may remember on our first weekend here, we helped construct the frame that is now the nursery. Inside now grows a few thousand saplings that will be sold to individuals, companies or more commercial nurseries. As with many places these days, indigenous plants are all the rage in South Africa. At the front there (obviously not trees) are worm houses... which we'll get to soon!

The Organic Orchard is another branch of Refilwe's Enterprises (ha ha, I'm on fire today). Inside grows various fruit trees, vegetable and herb plants that are all grown very organically and usually sold to make various jams and canned goods. We bought an artichoke the other day and ate it. It tasted very healthy.
Lastly, but most significantly, we have the worms. Setting up a worm farm and its associated products has been a focus of Refilwe Enterprises since we arrived. We have seen the enterprise grow from an idea, to housing millions of worms in kilos of dirt, to being branded and marketed. Refilwe is not in the worm-selling business, though. What they do is house and feed the worms, then collect the various products created by the worms to sell. The main product is compost, with a pinch of worm cast. MMmm. There is an intricate process to extracting the cast from the worms, which somehow involves the large silver machine below. I haven't actually seen it in action yet, but I have seen the end result, so it must work!

The result of establishing these enterprises should hopefully mean a more autonomous approach to resources for Refilwe. Of course, relationships with donors will always remain central for Refilwe to run successfully, but there is certainly an element of relief that comes with knowing you will always be able to pay the bills!

Busy Bees

Hands of Hope School has been a busy place over the past couple of weeks. Refilwe often has groups from different organisations wanting to become involved or provide some sort of resource for the children here. The experiences the students get out of it range from exciting to interesting to sometimes a bit strange (one time these people brought some pens, paper and peanut butter sandwiches... and that was it.)

Last week we were visited by a group from a university in Finland. One of them was a doctorate student who is studying something technical about teaching robotics and using computer systems to help teachers teach robotics. Not necessarily relevant to our small school, but interesting all the same. While some of the Finnish visitors entertained most of the students with Physics and Lego, Erlik the Doctorate Student conducted a 'study' using 6 students at a time, some robotic cars and us teachers. It was a very unique experience...

On Saturday we had a visit from a professional make-up artist and a photographer who brought all their fancy gear and had "Makeover Day" with the girls. A couple of months ago, the boys all went to a South African Army artillery display, so this day was somethings special just for the girls (not that I think the boys minded much to be left out...). They all seemed to have a lot of fun and of course looked gorgeous!


This week we've had a team from YWAM's School of Music and Missions here running workshops with the students every day after school. Considering it has rained every afternoon at almost exactly 3.30pm, it's been a timely change from our usual sporting activities! Most of our students love making music and they seem to be enjoying this experience.

Some Thoughts about Water

The rainy season has just begun here in Johannesburg. Our days begin warm, get hotter and then usually end with thunderstorms and pouring rain. Almost within a week, the landscape has changed from the dusty brownness of winter to the lush greenness of the rainy season. 

Water is often a topic of conversation in the places we come from. In Melbourne, the past 10 years have seen us grow accustomed to water restrictions and make efforts to conserve water habitual. In Lancaster... well, it tends to rain a lot during the summer time, often disrupting well-laid outdoor activities. But in South Africa (and indeed many places in Africa) the conversations about water follow a different path.

Over 10% of South Africans still live without access to clean water. It doesn't sound like much, but in a country of 48 Million, that's over 4.8 Million people. Most of them live in rural areas where their water is tainted by run-off created by mining. But many of them also live in informal settlements, places that are 'on the list' for receiving basic amenities such as clean water and toilets.

Behind us and across from us at Refilwe there are informal settlements. Some of these places still lack easy access to clean water. In many of them there is one central tap from which all 1-3,000 people must draw water. Bathing is done from basins or in local rivers; contamination of rivers by human waste puts everyone who uses them at risk of diseases such as cholera and dysentery. 

Here at Refilwe we are lucky to have running water facilities. We don't have to get up early every morning to walk to a central source to fill tubs with water for our day. We don't have to worry about getting violently ill after drinking what comes from our tap. But many of the people we interact with face this as a daily challenge. There is not much Refilwe can do to change this fact, aside from waiting along with these people for the day their community tops 'the list'.